Throwback Thursday: Israel and Bessie (Richards) Shaffer Wedding

Before Bessie Richards could marry Israel F. Shaffer on February 22, 1905, she had to find a wedding dress. Her mother, Katie, hired a seamstress, and the whole family went to West Union to shop for fabric and trimmings. It was winter, and the roads were covered with snow. Bessie’s father, Tom, hitched up the sleigh and the whole family – Bessie, her parents, and sisters Amy and Edith – nestled into piles of blankets for the 13-mile trip across snowy fields and lanes.

The trip from Illyria Township was an all-day affair. Tom treated the family to lunch in a local hotel, then the girls got to shopping. First came fabric. Then, a dowry lace for trim that came from Salt Lake City. They spared no expense, including a pair of shoes that cost $4 – “the finest we could get” as Bessie would recall. Israel’s wedding prep was less complicated. He purchased a two-piece black suite at Berg’s Store in Elgin for $15.

Rev. Wilbur Albright, a former Chilean missionary and Bessie’s uncle, performed the ceremony. Everything went smoothly at rehearsal the day before, until Rev. Albright tossed Bessie into the sleigh to head home and she fell, hitting her knee on the gate. Everyone froze in fear, but her knee was unscathed and the next morning she was ready to walk down the aisle.

Bessie’s older sister, Amy, was her maid of honor. Israel’s brother, Jack, was his best man. Once the wedding party was dressed, they stood in the sleigh for the short trip across the road from the Richards farmhouse to Illyria Community Church. They didn’t want their clothes to wrinkle.

The ceremony occurred at noon, followed by a wedding feast back at the farm. The highlight was a gelatin dessert, a relatively new dish for the home cook. The bowl of gelatin quivered every time someone walked past the table. Israel’s uncle, Luther Shaffer, observed: “My, that gelatin is nervous!”

Israel and Bessie lived on several farms near Elgin in the years after their wedding. They would have a daughter and two sons before moving home to the Richards farm March 1, 1912, where their fourth child, J.D., was born. They would live there until their oldest son, Ralph, took over the farm in the late 1930s. Bessie and Israel would spend 64 years together before he died in 1969 at age 88. Bessie remained in her home another 11 years, passing away February 28, 1980, at age 96.